please help me...

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by TNTMan1289, Sep 11, 2015.

  1. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    Help me... my family is moving to an entirely new area in a week. I'm moving away from the place I have been growing up in for 12 years and i'm sad... i'm leaving all my friends behind and my school and everything. I'm sad, scared, nervous, and a lot of things right now. Please help me, guys. I need your help to get through this.
     
  2. Miner

    Miner Bye y'all Penguin Retired Staff

    That sucks. But you can still text friends and stuff and plus you'll also have more friends at the new place
     
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  3. JeremyC

    JeremyC Well-Known Member Retired Staff

    ive had to go through this 5 times now (yep alot). Just be yourself, don't be too homesick, and have fun. Theres going to be so much to explore in your new city
     
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  4. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    Thanks, guys. I'll just really really miss everything...
     
  5. Wordguy

    Wordguy Shultz#7997 Staff Member Moderator Penguin

    Rip TNT. Where are you moving?
     
  6. johnyman333

    johnyman333 The John Penguin

    No matter where, no matter when.
    We will be here. We're your friends.
    And don't worry, you'll make new friends, new memories, new expieriences.
    Don't be a downer and face the new surroundings head on with a smile!
     
  7. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    My family is broke, we can't even afford to rent a house, and now my mom is crying...
     
  8. NapkinDabber

    NapkinDabber Well-Known Member Retired Staff

    Yikes...
     
  9. Kashers

    Kashers Social Tiger Penguin Retired Staff

    TNT, I know how you feel.
    My Dad lost his job for 14 months, and we were living off of my mom's job. Soon after that, my Mom got her purse robbed with credit card stuff, money and other valuable items. It's rough.
    If you ever need someone to talk to, you can private message me because i would be more than happy to help you get threw everything the way i got threw the hard times ;)
     
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  10. Lee

    Lee Well-Known Member

    moving isn't as bad as it seems because the world is so absolutely massive and you've just lived in one town your whole life so that means you have so much left to explore and this is just a new opportunity to see more things and do more things and meet more people
     
  11. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    Thanks, guys. I love this community. You guys are the best.
     
  12. Jessie

    Jessie Ex-Ownerbear Retired Staff

    I'm sorry you have to feel this way, TNT. I would say something that shows a lot of empathy, but instead I think it's good you're moving house. Not because I want you to feel lonely and sad without any friends, but you're going to be new to everything. It might be scary now but it's a fresh new start, a clean slate. I understand how you feel, my dad recently moved to Holland, so everyone I knew around him I probably won't see again, but I will if we both try.

    Leaving your friends is nothing to be afraid of, seeing as they're your friends you guys can still make some arrangements to meet up and have fun! I'm sure your parents would be more than happy to try and help you. Things will get better, I promise

    To TNT:
     
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  13. Dry

    Dry Well-Known Member Retired Staff

    I would say something....But face it me being serious never happens. So ill say this
    Good luck boy
     
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  14. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    I love all of you guys. You're really helping me through this. I've just never had to deal with moving so thank you guys. I appreciate all of it. This server is the best! :)
     
  15. smallonion

    smallonion Active Member

    Hey TNT, i just wanted to give you a few tips since this has happener to me before, and i (think) im around your age so i can understand :).

    1. Be nice to everybody, if someones rood to you, just ignore them, dont be rood back.
    2. Make sure your teachers can understand how you feel, they could help you and/or introduce you to more ppl.
    3. pleease tnt, PLEAAASE dont be a loner like when i moved before, that does not go well. try and make as much friends as you can. I understand how sad/shy you could be but once you make them your really good friends, they could be as good as your old ones.
    4. Speaking of your old friends, dont worry about them. Trust me, if theyre real friends, theyd miss you twice as much as you miss them, and theyd be scared about you too. remember, theres skype, texting, social media, tons of different ways to talk to them.
    Hope you learned something from this tnt <3 stay strong
     
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  16. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    I have less than a week in my old house and basically Eastlake in general. I can't get my friend's phone numbers for some reason. I don't know how to react right now. My attempts to persuade my parents to just move to another house in the same area has failed. My parents are having more frequent arguments and now i'm thinking my mom wants a divorce... our family is broke, my parents credit is horrible, we can't even find a house to rent. Honestly, I feel depressed and I feel like crying myself to sleep. But I don't want to reveal these feelings to my family or my family because I feel embarrassed. I don't think I can go through this anymore... please... don't let me be this way... don't let me do this...
     
  17. Chipjelly

    Chipjelly Active Member Retired Staff

    Hey Tnt, Im sure your family can get through this, your feeling are completely understandable. Moving new schools, houses, and all that jazz can be terrifying! Try and embrace it, just like everyone else is saying, moving only opens new opportunitys. Just under a year ago, I moved states. I was pretty rocky at first but I got used to it, Im sure you will too and Tnt if you need anyone to talk to, dont hesitate to msg me on skype :)
    Honestly though, I wish you good luck and I hope you're okay, I promise you Tnt, you'll get through this

    PS:
    Even if you move schools, you cant move away from us! The internet follows you wherever you go haha, I learnt that when I moved last year
     
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  18. smallonion

    smallonion Active Member

    TNT, just stay strong alright? Think of all the good things about moving. You can experience a whole new place, lots of people dont have any parents at all, they dont have a house, and could have several sicknesses. I remember about last week you were crazy happy about meeting Alex Hirsch and Markiplier. like, your being sad? the most famous person ive ever met is... well nobody. Just think about all the positives. Dont be a downer and be depressed. Dont feel embarrased to tell things to your parents. Theyve done SO much for you. Seriously. Theyve made yo have a home, made you have a computer, made you have food, made you have internet, made you have clothes, made you you. Stay strong tnt, we'll always be here <33
     
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  19. Lee

    Lee Well-Known Member

    yo listen up tnt
    even if you dont like where you end up moving, once you graduate its ur life and u can go anywhere u wanna go and do anything u wanna do son so dont give up yet cuz u got a whole life to do what u want with man aight u hear me itll be okay
     
  20. TNTMan1289

    TNTMan1289 Guest

    Well, i've moved into my house a few weeks ago. Thank you guys for all the help. I feel fine and starting to enjoy my new house. It still feels weird not being in Eastlake. Thanks all of you. You guys really helped me accept whee I am. Thank you. ♥
     
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